情人节

祝：

天下有情人，

终成眷属。。。

Happy Valentine's Day..... Sweet Sweet ya ~~~~

曾经的。。。

参加完了Seagate 的dinner 后 ，夜阑人静的夜晚，独自一个人，从吉隆坡的市中心驾着小黑回家的那30分钟路程。。。 听着李圣杰的手放开，repeat 又repeat。。。。脑海里出现了好多我们曾经的回忆。。。 突然又很想你了。。。 坚强了一段日子，以为自己已ok 了， 没想到又被那脆弱的意志力攻败。。。 心里又不停的哭泣了。。。 又心痛心疼了。。。

看清， 清醒，接受事实后的我，一直很努力的把你和这段感情放下。。。但偶尔发现， 原来按了delete 后， 你的踪影切还在cache memory 里，还没真真的清除掉。。。 sigh~~~~ 何时的我才能把你所有在我脑海里的记忆也format 了呢？？？？看来坚强，没事的我，内心且是那么的脆弱，崩溃。。。

好累， 好累。。。

吴若权的 << 起飞前，先学降落 >>

这是我三年前买的书。。。一本值得看的书。。。最近，每晚临睡前都阅读这本书，用了一个星期多的晚上， 把这本书又多看了一遍。。。从中又领悟了很多。。。

Part A ** 爱的航程， 总有尽头
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* 每个恋人都需要一对翅膀， 载着喜悦的心飞翔。 也能载着破碎的心离开。
* 一个巴掌拍不响，两个人相处不好，双方都需要改善。
* [责任] 和 [爱] 很难分开；但最好不是为了负责而爱。
* 及时离开不适合自己的边岸，才能早日找到可以真正长久停靠的港湾。
* 让过去的成为过去。
* 发现自己爱到满怀疑惑时，就该考虑分手了。

Part B ** 爱的续航，幸福加油
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* 不论个别活动或两人同行，都可以因为事前的规划而取得共识， 留住幸福。
* 理性和感性两个层面都考虑清楚之后， 剩下的诀策， 就让直觉去做！
* 相爱的两个人，必须学习把生活的重心放在共同的地方。
* 让步，是妥协的艺术。彼此对于 [底线] 的沟通与共识， 是平时就要付出的努力， 而不是[战
时]才开始争取的条件。
* 碰到懂得珍惜的人，所有的复出，都变成资产。碰到不会珍惜的人，再多的资产， 都变成负
债。

Part C **爱的途中， 察言观色
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* 情路难行时，用心观察， 用爱沟通。
* 缘分难留时， 珍惜自己的真心，别让它被锋利的感情伤透。
* 爱情里的无言，可能是两个人相处时最高的层次， 也可能是彼此沟通时最坏的状况。
* 别用太多毫无说服力的理由去粉饰太平。
* 就算选择不告而别， 爱情无疾而中，至少也要让祝福有个可以投递的方向。
* 爱情的朦胧之美，是来自把所有的事情看清楚之后的不计较。


Part D **爱到尽头，安全降落
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* 相爱容易，分手难
* 在爱情中付出比较多的人，在分手以后也会比较难过。
* 原谅不值得原谅的人，将换来永无至尽的心碎。
* 原谅， 应该留给懂得悔改的对象，而不是借此和一个不值得信赖的人继续耗下去。
* 让你已不爱，或已经不爱你的人离开，是对自己的一种宽容。
* 放手，不只是给对方自由，同时也是给伤心的自己， 另一条宽广的路去走。
* 为分手写下时间计划表，需要给双方 [心理准备期] ， [ 认知接受期]， [ 生活适应期]。
* 当情路走到山穷水尽； 真实的旅行可以带你发现柳暗花明又一村。

共勉之~~~~ Just some sharing.... hope all of you like it ^_______^

KTV 的星期天

无聊的星期天， 去了KTV 发泄发泄。。。 酱又过了一天。。。时间过的超快！！！ 明天又要做工咯~~~

糊里糊涂的我

最近， 我超糊涂。。超大头虾的。。。 呵呵。。

I'm so Blurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ~~~~ :p

super duper busy week...

it's been 5 days i never come in my blog to update de.... why? coz this whole week is super duper busy with work and dinner / gathering with friends ....

time past really fast.... friday again... tmr weekend la.. hehe...can sleep late again.... now abit flu and fever.... cancel all my appoinment tonite, and rest at home.... later need to sleep early...actually quite tired and sleepy now after take the selsema medicine :(

really cant accept time past so fast le... Feb of 2009 de... phewwww....

This month will very busy for work due to preparing our company grand opening end of this month.... sigh.... just like today, really busy meeting up with vendors from 1230 noon till 630 pm non stop.... now damn tired.... meeting whole day ... not even got chance to sit down my table to do my work... hahaha... my outstanding job have to rush again next week... :( and... pity of us.... even is in Selangor state, but not entitle for Thaipusam public holiday on monday...sigh.... work and work again.... going crazy.... haha... but hope that this time grand opening wont be like few months back when we are busy for the setting up for our company.... tat time, all of us never rest about 2 weeks continuos working and week before the company open, we always work till midnite and sometime even dinner also dint eat and back home sleep only... haha... this time i hope will be easy la... since our set up is more or less stable de... just the matter of grand opening activities and sponsorship only.... god bless ya~~~

okla... thats all for today...nothing special.... tmr Saturday lo, can wake up late and go kai kai ... hehehe.... ;)

Bye Bye ...10 days CNY Holiday

time past extremely fast...so fast finish my 10 days CNY holidays de.... tmr need to start work again.... kinda lazy...first thing come into my mind is..." OMG...need to wake up early again... can't sleep until noon de.... :( " hahaha....i'm really a lazy pig....

dint go any where this CNY, just went to grandma house at mlk ....and go out yum cha lepak with old friends.... watch 4 movie in cinema.... 家有喜事2009，大喜事，ink heart & Brides War...erm... others than that... sleep only... hahaha....

Tmr is hokkien pai tien kong.... and also is my dad birthday ;).... yeah yeah~~~

Miss my long hair....

Brought wig (hair extention) before CNY... but whole CNY also no mood to pan leng leng... this evening going for dinner, so take out my hair extention and make some changes for myself.... pan leng leng..mood will feel better... hahaha...Below is the photos with my hair extention....




Hmm.... suddently miss my waist long hair alot..... been cutting short hair for almost 10months de.... now wanna grow back... aiya.... dun know have to spend how long to grow back le?? 1-2 years?? :(..... no choice...have to wait lo.....

Piggie Day

was keeping myself as busy as i can for last few days... was extremely tired today in term of physically and mentally.... so rest at home for the whole day....mostly sleep the whole day... haha... moody.... lazy to move.... so just lying on bed and sleep.... really sleep whole day.... just wake up when mum ask me for lunch or dinner... after eat..online a while and stick on the bed again.....really tiredddddddddddddddd......

later going yum cha with bewah and laisun....my ji mui.... but now still feel tired.... haha..mayb sleep too much...lol....

逐渐的。。。

我想逐渐的，我已说服自己接受事实，接受一个我一直以来不想接受， 一直以来逃避的事实。。。这几天真的好辛苦，好难过，好伤心，整个新年都没真真的开心过。。。谢谢家人给我的“无声”understanding， 我知道虽然你们都知道了， 但不要让我伤心，你们选着我最舒服的方式去给我加油。。。

也谢谢老友们的加油。。。 谢谢你们的陪伴。。。 好让我能够度过我这漫长伤心的假期。。。

我会学着逐渐的把这段伤感的感情放下。。。 看清一切，是时候清醒了。。。

" Life still need to go on even my heart broken into pieces!!! " this is what i read from a book.... haha... wish me happy always~~~cheerss~~~